= Learn to play guitar in a year with prac daily for 30 mins
= Learn to play keyboard
= To excerise 3 times a week (Swim, Gym & Jogging)
= To pray at least 1hr daily constantly
= To Fast on every Wed
= To lose weight to 3-5kg by June
= To go at least 2 mission trips
= To travel to HK / Taiwan

My Loves__________

- Love God
- Love Sheng Long
- Love Her Family
- Love Her members
- Love Her friends
- Love CHC
- Love shopping, wish to own an online biz
- Love watching movies
- Love to travel around the world to do good
- Love Sports
- Love Dancing
- Love to watch TVs

Wishlist__________

+ Growth in CG
+ Multiplication in Mar'09 with 30 members
+ Spirit-filled study bible
+ Book: Dr Cho's Forth Dimension Volume 2
+ Book: John C Maxwell (Leadership Book Series)
+ Acer Aspire one laptop
+ Nike running shoe
+ Guess Sling Bag
+ Nike Shoe Bag
+ Puma Bag
+ Guess Flat Shoe
+ Kappa Black Polo Tee
+ Black Jacket
+ Nike running shorts
+ Nike running tops
+ Nokie N-71
+ Canon 3-in-1 Priter
+ I-Pod Video
+ More CA & Ed hardy Tops
+ TR Jeans
+ WiiSet with Guitar Hero complete band
+ Face, Leg, Arm Roller

Tag here!__________

Connection__________

Ariel
Angela
Shu Ting
Claire
Ming Yan
Vanessa
Clarabelle
Jollie
Evan
Sandra

Archives__________

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Thursday, October 16, 2008

Wow!! It has been one mth since i've last blogged. Well, nothing much to write at the moment. Times flies, we are already in the midst of OCT. Coming to an end in 2008. What is going to be my focus for the next few mths will be the GROWTH in n127, myself & every member's life. My desires is to multiply the grp at the end of Dec. Just to share some things that i have read:

As leaders, it is important to understand and master the art of communication. There are 4 aspects of effective communication. But remember, not all communication is verbal. Actions, facial expressions, and posture all communicate a message. Some people unknowingly send the wrong message.

1. Discretion.The dictionary defines discretion as being careful about what one says or does, or the ability to keep silent, regulated by one's own choice. Discretion is a choice. It is a quality that you develop and master, becoming more discrete as you practice. Keeping quiet is the best way to practice. Talking too much is very destructive. High achievers have learned to guard their conversation carefully, knowing when to speak and when not to speak, what to say and what not to say.

2. Active Listening.It is nearly always more profitable to listen than it is to speak. A good listener may hear something that will add to his collection of knowledge. Be attentive to what others say. You practice active listening by mentally repeating what the other party says a moment after he says it. You will stay alert and grasp the details of the conversation. This takes practice, but soon it will become a part of your everyday conversation.

3. Clarity.Be clear with your words. Whenever you attempt to present an idea or the progress of a project, prepare what you say. Be clear, concise, and candid in every conversation. Allow your boss's questions to carry on the conversation rather than your presentation.

4. Gain Understanding.Don't leave the conversation until you understand what is expected of you. Don't feel unprofessional for asking your boss to explain what he wants from you. Write it down. This shows him that you are interested in doing what he says. Gaining a deeper and more clear understand will greatly enhance the final product.Learning to communicate is crucial in the workplace environment. These are just four main aspects of effective communication. There are many more, but the point is to know with whom you are communicating. Everyone needs to be communicated with differently. Always ask yourself: How will they receive what I am trying to say? Step into their shoes, then make the decision to communicate or not.Also, your body language consists of nearly 70% of all communication. How you posture greatly determines how yours words are received. This is a skill you must learn if you want to communicate effectively.

Take Action:
1. In what ways can you be more discrete?
2. How would you rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10 as an effective listener? What can you do to improve your rating?
3. Always try to step into the shoes of those you are speaking with. Ask yourself, how will this effect them emotionally?

Love is the greatest motivator!!! ______ Dreams are dancing on a melody at3:44 PM

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